[And she can feel her well of sympathy drying out again.]

Of course I don't know! You refuse to tell me!

But I do know one thing about your situation: It's changed now. Hasn't it?

[As she says it, she emphasizes by uncrossing her arms, and gesturing at the city around them. A little wildly, but that's just to emphasize that he should be looking all around.]

I'm not saying you need to look harder. I'm saying you need to keep looking — there's a difference!