"I know I am not the most emotionally available person," Jean-Paul says, aware of what an understatement this is. "But you may speak to me whenever you wish, David."

He glances over. "That said, I am glad to see you with friends your own age. I know how condescending that must sound, but it's important. Nobody will ever understand you perfectly - I am of the opinion that ultimately nobody will ever know someone else completely - but most people DO want to create connections and listen to others."